Iβm leaving my love here for all of you dear souls that are struggling with grief right now. Youβre not alone and I promise: you will be better again. And if you are indeed alone thereβs always the beauty of nature that loves you. Find a tree you can hug or a landscape you can scream into. Hold on, donβt despair and always remember that your grief is a reflection of the love you had (have). You have a birthright to get through this and live again!
Your video is very helpful, as always! Thank You!πππ
Itβs been relentless for me these last several years, I lost my mother, little sister, two colleagues, and three friends since 2022. Everyone thinks I should be over it by now but the reality that life is fading for me as well has made the grief even worse.
Thank you so much for taking time to give advise for free! It is always helpful for me.
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as someone who has friendships ended, thank you :thanksdoc:
I'm going through two different groups right now I lost my mother and my son who's 17 quit talking to me. I'm coping I'm doing a lot of cardiovascular exercise, therapy, self-forgiveness lots of walking I'm just taking in life. It's hard but it's doable and everything you said is so true.
I need this in my life right now. These are the words I needed to articulate to my therapist when I wanted to focus on non-SA related grief and I'm being pushed to discuss it and told that it's simply difficult to talk about. Of course it is, I'm angry and can't hurt them back. Either way, thank you as always.
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Thank you Scott. I've realized I'm not just going through 1 type of grief, yet this applies to every one. β€ (Off topic, but your skin in glowing!)
Thank you. Not doing well today.
If there were buckets enough to contain my tears they all would be overflowing
I have MDD and I am basically going through life alone. My family just thinks I am defective and that I am putting on a show for attention. So I am bonded with nature and my pets. In July I had 4 pets: 2 sweet little mice, a cat that is super aloof and my best friend-KYLIE a Chihuahua who is almost 15. One mouse somehow contracted pneumonia, and then the other one got it. I begged God to help them, they suffered terribly and I lost MISS PIP on July 13th and lost SPINNER the next day. IMMENSE GRIEF for months: God hates me, it was my fault they got sick and died π. Forward to October, KYLIE became desperately ill on the 12th; a Saturday and not one vet available until Monday. She already had COLLAPSING TRACHEA and I thought that was the issue, on Monday the vet said she has CONGESTIVE HEART FAILURE. She is put on Lasix, so now add peeing every 30 minutes to the cough all day long, she sometimes struggles to breathe. She previously had a seizure once in a while, (mostly focal type)and now those have come back but now they are much worse. The vet gives Phenobarbital and something to make her heart more effective. But then add bloody diarrhea to the mix. So more meds. KYLIE was a real trooper through it all until early December; now she has multiple seizures every day which make her scream and me cry and beg God to help her so Versed injections are added, but I don't see much difference and after 10 plus bad, long seizures on Friday, December 13th at 1145 pm I beg God to please take my sweet lovey because KYLIE won't give in to death and it is finally over, no more suffering for her, she is at peace. Now I am completely aloneπ (my Cat is still here, but she won't allow me to hold, pet,love on except when she is in the mood).I have a hole in my life that can't be filled. So grieving is a daily thing now. Your videos are very helpful. THANK YOU β€
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