Almost single person I go on a date with wants a second date. I've also made a great salesperson! The key is just seeming interested and entertaining. You don't need to be the most unique or special person, but have an opinion on what others say and add to the conversation. Be well-read. I find being well-read and absorbing meaningful, interesting content is the best thing you can do for your personality. We can only put out what we take in. Don't spend all day watching Reality TV, curate a passion, unless you want to end up with someone... who spends all day watching Reality TV.
SALES - presenting something in a way that emotionally resonates with the potential buyer
That hit the nail ! Basically confidence = competence + tolerance to the rejections that comes in the way.
Aren't most things in life about displaying yourself in the best way possible? š¤
Dating is similar to Marketing, not Sales. You have to be genuine and authentic too. So I'm not sure it's a good comparison
SALES boil down to ability to handle interpersonal relationships. If you are genuine and convincing, people will buy whatever you are selling: product, service, personal brand. People follow YOU
You have to appeal to them both emotionally, that is the type of creatures we are
The correct way to see it is, every time you face a rejection your chances of succeeding increases not decreases, you are one less rejection away.
Business is all about nurturing a relationship. Same with dating.
I've been saying this for years. Why I'm soooo good at sales š
"Sales and Dating are the same thing" - Unfortunately yes, because people tend to fall for narratives instead of seeing facts.
I work in sales and always use exactly the same techniques when I hit on girls as I do at work. Felt like a fucking psychopath when I realized that it actually works.
Self belief and charisma are extremely important if you want to sell effectively, and improve your social life.
I like his voice, way of saying and of course the content. Thank you.
I sold myself well, but after that I could not be in relationship with her anyway. Selling is relativelly easy part I guess. But they find who you are and you find who they are overtime anyway
Bro, I've been saying this for years. PREACH.
Confidence Comes From Knowledge!
Iām fairly early, might as well mention that I upload waffles every day
yes, you are the product. but don't forget, you don't sell the product, you sell the experience and the results. always give her a fun time and remind her you can open jars and reach things on the top shelf at the supermarket.
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