Discovering Self-Accountability: My Breakup Transformation

About two years ago, I was stuck in a loop of blaming others for my problems—specifically during a coaching session with Mervyn Byrd, where I spent half the time pointing fingers at someone else. Then Mervyn asked me one question that shifted everything: ‘Where are your fingerprints in all this?’

That hit me like a brick. I realized I was a victim of my own story, but the power to change it was staring back at me in the mirror. The journey from blame to ownership isn’t easy, but it’s the foundation of growth.

If you’re stuck, ask yourself: What role did I play? Growth starts with owning your story. Look in the mirror—it’s not about reflection; it’s about action.