In Asia we don't open gifts in front of the giver especially if other friends/family are present, but I'd like to add to the reason she gave .The real reason is so as not to embarrass the giver if it was something inexpensive and so those present would not be comparing gifts given by various guests as some may be financially better off than others. If it was a one-on-one situaltion or between very close friends/family we are more comfortable to open the gift in front of the giver and immediate family present.
in pakistan we dont open it so we can give it as a gift next time we visit someone
I don't like opening gifts immediately for exactly that reason: I don't want to seem greedy; I'm humbled to have even received a gift.
In Egypt we don’t open gifts because your presence is more important than the gift.
For chinese we have a saying 物轻情义重 which means even if the gift is 'light' the feelings are 'strong'. There's a story of a friend traveling a long harsh way, losing the present on the way, but still trying hard to make it to see the friend, but felt bad to go without present and on the way saw a white feather and thought it's beautiful to make it as a gift. Upon arrival, the friends were delighted to see each other, but the one felt bad and worried to gift a feather. Instead the friend was happy and replied 物轻情义重, saying that the feelings were so much important than the actual weight of the item. So we usually put the actual 'gift' aside showing that their 'feelings' is enough. Sometimes we would say something like 'you don't need to actually give me anything, your wishes/feelings are enough. A long comment for anyone interested.
In Nigeria, it's customary not to open a gift in front of the person who gave it, as it's considered impolite. The tradition is to thank the giver when they present the gift, and then again when you see or speak to them later. This repeated expression of thanks is a way of showing appreciation, not just for the gift itself, but for the thoughtfulness and generosity of the giver.
In Colombia, we're really into expressing gratitude and love, never taking anyone for granted. For example, not super universal steps, but common enough: You first say, "Noooo, why did you bother yourself!? Tsk, thank you so much!!!" Then you start to open it, and everyone around starts singing "you should wear it! You should wear it!" (even if the package makes it clear that it's not clothing but a basketball, that's part of the joke/fun), then let's say IT IS a piece of clothing, you wear it on top of your clothes and make a little walk or dance clearly showing your appreciation; if it was chocolates/candy, sometimes you open it and share it; etc. or if it's something that doesn't permit immediate use, you make some comment like "I love this bc it's merch from my favorite show/I've been looking for this!/it's gonna be so useful!/etc.". You end up by strongly hugging and thanking the giver again 😊. As a gifter, you never leave the price tag, since it's not about the money but the thought and feelings, otherwise you'd look very rude, like you're trying to put a focus on how much money you have.
I love people talking about the traditions in their country. It is really fascinating so learn so much about customs and traditions around the world
Not a gun, just any weapon in general. It goes back to way before guns were invented.
In America you open the gift so the giver gets his satisfaction lol
I'm an American and we open gifts in front of the person who gifted the gift to say Thank You and to show our appreciation...
I remember in Japan, I had to be taught how to receive everything! Even business cards. You receive the card and should admire the card and really take your time to look at it and examine the front and back of it before putting it away. There’s context in everything. It’s beautiful learning about culture’s different from your own.
In Lebanon, we don't open gifts in front of the person who gave us the gift, unless they specifically ask us to. This is to avoid awkward reactions. Also, we make sure to remove the price tag because it is impolite to show how much you spent on it. If it was too cheap, the receiver may feel like you didn't put much effort; if it was too expensive, the receiver may think you are trying to show off and expect an equally expensive gift next time; and if it was well priced, the receiver may think this is how much you expect them to spend on your gift. It's just best to avoid the price tag altogether. And if they ask how much it was, say it doesn't matter. However, if the person is very close to you where these social norms no longer matter to you two, you can give them the receipt if they'd like to change it (mostly with clothes, for the size, color, of style).
I personally have always hated this tradition of opening gifts in front of everyone. Especially when it's during a party or event. It seems so tacky to me, and it puts the giver and recipient on the spot. You can tell when a gift isn't well received and it's just awkward. I'd much rather open it in private.
I love these shorts that show the logic behind different cultures ❤
It is amazing how different cultures deal with the same situation ❤ In Brazil, you first say that the person did not have to bother, than that their presence is more important than anything. But you still should open the gift and make sure you demonstrate that you loved it, thanking the person for being so generous.
I think its important to know different cultures so that you show respect. Thank you for sharing.
In the Philippines we usually say "bakit nag-abala ka pa?" which translates to "why did you even bother?" It is of course a rhetorical question. The act of gift-giving is very much appreciated. The gifts are then put aside to be opened by the celebrant later after the party. It is to tell the guests that their presence is what's important. Not bringing gifts is actually common. What's frowned upon is not going to a party you're invited to just because you didn't have a gift to give. Edit: a much better translation should be: "you shouldn't have bothered, but thank you." (Non-native english speaker excuse hahaha)
The information was interesting, also I must say both women are very beautiful
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